I keep trying to wear this dress, but I’m coming to the conclusion that I really don’t like it very much. I bought it about four years ago because it was in the sale and my size, and I doubt if I’ve worn it ten times since then. The pattern is pretty, but the colour is dull, and it has three-quarter-lenth bell sleeves which makes it tricky to wear things over, and one of those annoying too-low necklines. It may be time to retire it to the charity shop bag. (It also strikes me that the times I’ve worn it and liked the outfit have been when I’ve worn it over a long-sleeved t-shirt in a colour, to counteract the draftiness of the sleeves and the overall brownness of the dress, but the shorter-sleeves-over-a-long-sleeved-t-shirt look is a bit too casual for me to wear for work now.)

Cardigan – Monsoon via Oxfam
Necklace – Oxfam fairtrade
Dress – Per Una
Tights – M&S
Boots – Timberland
I do like the cardigan, though I haven’t worn that very much since buying it last winter either. I’ve been thinking about how often I wear things since reading a blog post where the blogger mentioned having worn a pair of jeans she bought four years ago 17 times, which I think she thought was getting quite good wear out of them though to me that doesn’t seem like a lot of wear at all – only four times a year. But then, I really don’t know how often I would need to wear things to think I was getting a good deal. At the moment, I’m probably wearing the dresses I like best once every couple of weeks, my green and red jackets at least once most weeks, one or other of my smart pairs of boots every day, my jeans every evening, my Clothkits skirt and brown handknitted jumper for all of the last two weekends. Is that too often? Not often enough? Should I be trying to wear more of my wardrobe, or pruning it down so I only keep the things I actually wear? (There’s a lot I don’t wear; in my attempt to look smart for the new job I’m trying to curb my natural inclination towards layering and I think it’s the impossibility of finding tops I like with skirts without things layered over them that’s pushing me so strongly towards dresses right now.) I just don’t know. I suspect I have too many clothes and a good weed wouldn’t come amiss, anyway…